Is he dating me out of pity
Does he spew his anger all over everyone, including you? Proverbs -25 says, “Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.” If you are not to make friendships with angry people, why would you covenant yourself to someone who fits this description? If he would more readily spend a day on the lake than helping someone in need, this indicates where his heart lies.
Proverbs makes it clear that you will only be ensnared. You may actually become an enabler who receives the brunt of his anger. Those little childlike qualities may seem really cute right now, but it will grow old (and aggravating) shortly into marriage. If a man is not responsible with his time, money, and work, why would he be responsible in his future family life? You should also consider your date’s relationships with other people.
However, a husband is responsible to lead his wife in sanctification, as this verse explains with the imagery of Christ and His bride.
If a man cannot do that, he is not ready to be a husband.
so we stay in dysfunctional relationships trying to heal to the point of complete sacrifice of ourselves. A wounded spirit will almost always bring a sense of sadness upon first meeting, and may reflect a lonely vibration. At the end of the day you’re at peace with yourself and the person you love.
How to Tell if it is Love or Pity Remember the first time you saw a wounded animal? It hurt you inside and probably made you cry — even more so if you thought that you could not heal the animal.
It is easy to see only the positive in the other person and completely ignore any warning signs. It would be foolish to date someone and not even consider the possible outcomes.
I am not implying that a man has to be a prude, but he is to be a protector.
If a man is addicted to pornography, he is already committing adultery/fornication in his heart, even before you tie the knot.
It’s an good question that needs to be considered seriously. The same applies for sexual innuendo that is inappropriate before marriage.
If he is always broaching conversations about sex, he is not doing a good job of helping you to protect your mind against lust before marriage.He is already showing that he is unwilling to “forsake all others,” and that he is not living a pure lifestyle.